Monthly Archives: May 2020

Another Week Begins

Posted on Monday, May 11, 2020 by Paul

“Remember that people are only guests in your story – the same way you are only a guest in theirs – so make the chapters worth reading.”? Lauren Klarfeld The dress Sue has on dates back to 1988 and was … Continue reading →

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Mother’s Day Has Been VERY Different!

Posted on Sunday, May 10, 2020 by Paul

Courtesy of John P. Reed I still say I Love You, But now there’s no reply. I always feel your presence As if you never left my side. I remember your comforting voice. Now there’s not a sound. Only echoes … Continue reading →

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The Weekend Is Here!

Posted on Saturday, May 9, 2020 by Paul

Be miserable. Or motivate yourself. Whatever has to be done, it’s always your choice. On a serious note, Sue and I talked about what would happen should we not be together and it was agreed we would NOT be miserable … Continue reading →

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Finally, The Week Is Ka-Put!

Posted on Friday, May 8, 2020 by Paul

Very well put, thank you, Mr. Koontz! “Grief can destroy you –or focus you. You can decide a relationship was all for nothing if it had to end in death, and you alone. OR you can realize that every moment … Continue reading →

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This Was A Most Difficult Day

Posted on Thursday, May 7, 2020 by Paul

“The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not ‘get over’ the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it. You will heal, and you will rebuild yourself around the loss you have suffered. … Continue reading →

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It’s Been Eleven Weeks; Eleven LONG Weeks

Posted on Thursday, May 7, 2020 by Paul

“When we lose someone we love, we must learn not to live without them, but to live with the love they left behind.” – Anonymous When we decided to have “kids,” little did we know we would end up with … Continue reading →

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Sinko Day My-Oh; Corona (Beer) For All!

Posted on Tuesday, May 5, 2020 by Paul

“Grief is not as heavy as guilt, but it takes more away from you.” – Veronica Roth Sue would always tell me, “Don’t say it that way!”  I would say, “What way?”  She would say in return, “Don’t say we … Continue reading →

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Monday Has Arrived!

Posted on Monday, May 4, 2020 by Paul

“Grief never ends… But it changes. It’s a passage, not a place to stay.” – Anon My wonderful bride could make anything in the kitchen.  New recipes were her way of letting off steam after a busy day at work.  We … Continue reading →

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The Rat Race Starts Tomorrow; I Shall Stand Back And Watch!

Posted on Sunday, May 3, 2020 by Paul

Where you used to be, there is a hole in the world, which I find myself constantly walking around in the daytime, and falling in at night. I miss you like hell. – Ena St. Vincent Millay We began going … Continue reading →

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The Weekend Has Begun; I Am Ready!

Posted on Saturday, May 2, 2020 by Paul

Sue, you were are a special gift from the heavens. Your smile warmed my heart, and your presence made me whole. I love you today and forever! When it comes to family, Sue was the greatest.  She loved the kids … Continue reading →

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