About Mary & Paul

We can only learn to love by loving. --Iris Murdoch

It's A Long Story.... Over Twenty Years

Paul was widowed early 2020 and was in a deep funk. After several months, Jan Mongell called and siad he should call Dr. Mary Côté because she also was down low after her husband departed.

It was not a "date" but a chance to visit an old friend and talk about every one else in our dance club! Well, we hit it off. That was July 28th 2020 and one year to the day, we were married at the same restaurant we first met at!

This site covers us getting our hoseholds together, the marriaage and a celebration we call "Dancing Under The Stars".


Please enjoy!