{"id":52385,"date":"2021-02-13T13:18:25","date_gmt":"2021-02-13T20:18:25","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/?p=52385"},"modified":"2021-02-14T14:46:37","modified_gmt":"2021-02-14T21:46:37","slug":"saturday-was-a-lazy-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/?p=52385","title":{"rendered":"Saturday Was A Lazy Day!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>I used to have a handle on life, but then it broke.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>The morning was grey, reminding me of being at sea where the ocean and the sky merge into a huge grey mass.\u00a0 Although the clouds seemed to threaten rain as we walked Scout, The Wonder Dog, there was no rain on the usual 0.8-mile journey. Then I had a thought, always a dangerous situation: Why don\u2019t sheep shrink when it rains?<\/p>\n<p>We finally &#8220;woke up&#8221; (i.e., stopped walking around like zombies) around noon after a late breakfast and Scout&#8217;s little walk.\u00a0 Today it was Annie and dancing day!\u00a0 At 3:00 PM, we headed to Banning to visit Annie, a friend of Mary&#8217;s, for almost a half-century. We were packing up and getting ready to go, and Mary was going through the checklist.<\/p>\n<p>Tomorrow is Valentine&#8217;s Day, so there were no restaurants open; we had to take a picnic basket to the dance!<\/p>\n<p>We hit the road and remembered, &#8220;If you don\u2019t know where you are going, any road will get you there.&#8221;\u00a0 Mary was driving, so I did not see much except the inside of my eyelids; passing cars at the speed of sound three inches off the deck is frightening.\u00a0 When Mary stops, it&#8217;s like a carrier landing. I had my Depends at the ready!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_52392\" style=\"width: 970px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-pre-dance.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-52392\" class=\"size-full wp-image-52392\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-pre-dance.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"1280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-pre-dance.jpg 960w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-pre-dance-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-pre-dance-422x562.jpg 422w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-pre-dance-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-pre-dance-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-52392\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&#8220;Saddle up, big boy!&#8221; Taking joy in living is a woman&#8217;s best cosmetic!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>On a serious note, and that does not happen very often, I am enamored that Dr. Mary takes joy in visiting friends, who are a quarter-century older than he, and that she honestly cares about these people like I was taught growing up.\u00a0 Mary is an amazing and caring lady.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screenshot_328.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-52401\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screenshot_328.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1286\" height=\"590\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screenshot_328.png 1286w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screenshot_328-300x138.png 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screenshot_328-450x206.png 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screenshot_328-150x69.png 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/screenshot_328-768x352.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1286px) 100vw, 1286px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>We visited for an hour, sharing all the latest gossip.\u00a0 Gossip: Hearing something you like about someone you don\u2019t.\u00a0 For being in her mid-90s, Annie is as sharp as a tack and funny!<\/p>\n<p>I tried to remember some good gossip, but Marty had to explain to me: &#8216;You have two parts of the brain, \u201cleft\u201d and \u201cright.\u201d On the left side, there\u2019s nothing right, and on the right side, there\u2019s nothing left!&#8217;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_52388\" style=\"width: 1869px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-52388\" class=\"size-full wp-image-52388\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1859\" height=\"1394\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie.jpg 1859w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-450x337.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-150x112.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-1536x1152.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1859px) 100vw, 1859px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-52388\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Mary, like me, relishes old friends and keeps in touch for decades!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Do you recognize these two? The snapshot was taken about ten years ago, looking good.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_52390\" style=\"width: 1841px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-mary.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-52390\" class=\"size-full wp-image-52390\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-mary.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1831\" height=\"1279\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-mary.jpg 1831w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-mary-300x210.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-mary-450x314.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-mary-150x105.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-mary-768x536.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/annie-mary-1536x1073.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1831px) 100vw, 1831px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-52390\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Two lovely chicks!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Around 6:00 PM, we headed out, aiming Precious (Mary&#8217;s rocket ship) toward Chino.\u00a0 I drove the little lady this evening, and that was an eye-opener.\u00a0 It was like a rocket-powered roller-skate.\u00a0 Just breath on the accelerator, and you jump into warp drive.\u00a0 \u00a0I managed to keep her under control, but it took all the power I had.\u00a0 The sun was setting, and the sky was amazing.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_52391\" style=\"width: 1717px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/leaving-chino.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-52391\" class=\"size-full wp-image-52391\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/leaving-chino.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1707\" height=\"1280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/leaving-chino.jpg 1707w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/leaving-chino-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/leaving-chino-450x337.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/leaving-chino-150x112.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/leaving-chino-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/leaving-chino-1536x1152.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1707px) 100vw, 1707px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-52391\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The sky was on fire!\u00a0 Sunset is still my favorite color; the rainbow is second.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The most beautiful sunsets are the ones we share. We arrived in Chino at about 6:45 PM, after getting clearance from the local control tower,\u00a0 and took our sandwiches into the studio and dined with Bob and Donna.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_52393\" style=\"width: 1717px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/at-the-dance.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-52393\" class=\"size-full wp-image-52393\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/at-the-dance.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1707\" height=\"1280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/at-the-dance.jpg 1707w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/at-the-dance-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/at-the-dance-450x337.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/at-the-dance-150x112.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/at-the-dance-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/at-the-dance-1536x1152.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1707px) 100vw, 1707px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-52393\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Dinner is served!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Since I take the pictures and seldom get a picture with me, we risked the camera lens, and Mary got a shot at me!\u00a0 The lens did not overheat nor break; there was a slight vibration, however! Oh, and a little bit of steam!<\/p>\n<p>As Mark Twain said, &#8220;Wrinkles should merely indicate where smiles have been.&#8221; My smiles have been all over!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_52394\" style=\"width: 970px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/paul-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-52394\" class=\"size-full wp-image-52394\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/paul-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"960\" height=\"1280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/paul-1.jpg 960w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/paul-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/paul-1-422x562.jpg 422w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/paul-1-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/paul-1-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-52394\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">A dashing figure, I might say!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>We danced and danced, taking it easy, doing only rumbas, foxtrots, cha-chas, and waltzes. I asked Dr. Mary, &#8220;What sort of dancing do ducks like?&#8221; Again, without hesitation, she replied, &#8221; The quackstep.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_52397\" style=\"width: 972px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-i-night-away.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-52397\" class=\"size-full wp-image-52397\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-i-night-away.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"962\" height=\"1394\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-i-night-away.png 962w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-i-night-away-207x300.png 207w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-i-night-away-388x562.png 388w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-i-night-away-104x150.png 104w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/mary-i-night-away-768x1113.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 962px) 100vw, 962px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-52397\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Beauty and the Beast!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>We departed Chino about 9:00 PM for Mary&#8217;s with Precious straining at the bit; I kept her well under Mach 3, but it was a fight. Besides, I didn&#8217;t want to pat for the broken glass in the neighboring windows.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_52286\" style=\"width: 580px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/precious.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-52286\" class=\"size-full wp-image-52286\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/precious.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"570\" height=\"321\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/precious.jpg 570w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/precious-300x169.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/precious-450x253.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2021\/02\/precious-150x84.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 570px) 100vw, 570px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-52286\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">&#8220;Mommy! How come Daddy drives too slow!&#8221;<\/p><\/div>\n<p>We arrived at home about 9:30 PM and watched some TV before crashing.\u00a0 It was an amazing day!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I used to have a handle on life, but then it broke. 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