{"id":51111,"date":"2020-12-23T06:38:21","date_gmt":"2020-12-23T13:38:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/?p=51111"},"modified":"2020-12-24T13:42:05","modified_gmt":"2020-12-24T20:42:05","slug":"the-day-before-the-day-before-christmas","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/?p=51111","title":{"rendered":"The Day Before The Day Before Christmas"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em>I asked Mary what she wanted for Christmas. She told me, &#8220;Nothing would make her happier than a diamond necklace,&#8221; So I bought her nothing!<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>It was a big day for Mary, her last day at the VA after thirty-four years.\u00a0 I went to the dentist and laid down for three hours, getting a crown and three small fillings.\u00a0 After the torture, I headed to the VA to walk out with Mary and make sure she was &#8220;OK.&#8221;<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_51117\" style=\"width: 512px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/map.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-51117\" class=\" wp-image-51117\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/map.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"502\" height=\"746\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/map.jpg 938w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/map-202x300.jpg 202w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/map-378x562.jpg 378w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/map-101x150.jpg 101w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/map-768x1141.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 502px) 100vw, 502px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-51117\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">I walked almost all the way in and then realized I forgot the &amp;$^%* mask!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Mary was doing OK, but a little sad, and who would not be leaving something you love to do, but the leadership became unbearable.\u00a0 I snapped a shot of the back of the VA as we headed to the car.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_51118\" style=\"width: 1717px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/va.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-51118\" class=\"size-full wp-image-51118\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/va.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"1707\" height=\"1280\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/va.jpg 1707w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/va-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/va-450x337.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/va-150x112.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/va-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/va-1536x1152.jpg 1536w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1707px) 100vw, 1707px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-51118\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Goodbye, old friend!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>She tried to check out, but the unit secretary was 100% wrong on everything.\u00a0 We ended up at the lock &amp; key office, and they informed us that no one knows who has what keys as the locksmith retired and all the records were lost.\u00a0 It sounds like the government, right?<\/p>\n<p>We went to my house with Mary following me in the truck.\u00a0 We called The Original Fish Company and ordered rainbow trout with veggies for lunch.\u00a0 We dined at Chez Liles, having one glass of wine.<\/p>\n<p>We called Colleen and talked with her for a while, which always lights up our day.\u00a0 Between Colleen and Robin, they are our power sources!<\/p>\n<p>I made sure Mary was &#8220;OK&#8221; before she left me.\u00a0 She headed out at 2:00 PM to do a little shopping while I stayed behind and did some wash.\u00a0 I headed to Mary&#8217;s about 4:00 PM and arrived within minutes of her getting home.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_51025\" style=\"width: 516px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/2020-phooey.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-51025\" class=\" wp-image-51025\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/2020-phooey.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"506\" height=\"506\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/2020-phooey.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/2020-phooey-300x300.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/2020-phooey-450x450.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/2020-phooey-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/2020-phooey-768x768.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 506px) 100vw, 506px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-51025\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">No Disneyland, no Catal, no Christmas play, no boat parades, zip, nada, nuttin&#8217;.<\/p><\/div>\n<p>We talked for a bit and then went to The Rib Trader, where we indulged in a glass of wine and fried zucchini and buffalo wings, you know, health food!\u00a0 Jim was on duty so we gabbed with him for quite a while.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_51015\" style=\"width: 910px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/image-rib-trader-comics.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-51015\" class=\"size-full wp-image-51015\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/image-rib-trader-comics.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"675\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/image-rib-trader-comics.jpg 900w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/image-rib-trader-comics-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/image-rib-trader-comics-450x338.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/image-rib-trader-comics-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/image-rib-trader-comics-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-51015\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">She did NOT order the special tonight, thank goodness!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>We departed the trader and went to David and Dianne&#8217;s for a short visit and to drop off some clam chowder we picked up for David at the Fish Company.\u00a0 We had a good visit before heading home for the evening.<\/p>\n<p>We got home just in time to watch &#8220;Two And A Half Men,&#8221; a good way to get the giggles going.\u00a0 Mary was pooped out; partly, I think she was emotionally beat.\u00a0 She headed for bed but then got her second wind, and we had some baklava courtesy of Irene Kosmetatos.\u00a0 Now it was time for bed; it&#8217;s been quite a day.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_51031\" style=\"width: 532px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/paul-mary.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-51031\" class=\" wp-image-51031\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/paul-mary.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"522\" height=\"456\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/paul-mary.jpg 1465w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/paul-mary-300x262.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/paul-mary-450x393.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/paul-mary-150x131.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/paul-mary-768x670.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 522px) 100vw, 522px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-51031\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Two happy people enjoying the season together!<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_51124\" style=\"width: 531px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/screenshot_258.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-51124\" class=\" wp-image-51124\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/screenshot_258.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"521\" height=\"431\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/screenshot_258.png 1218w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/screenshot_258-300x248.png 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/screenshot_258-450x372.png 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/screenshot_258-150x124.png 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/12\/screenshot_258-768x636.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 521px) 100vw, 521px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-51124\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">How very true!<\/p><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I asked Mary what she wanted for Christmas. 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