{"id":43655,"date":"2020-02-27T16:28:18","date_gmt":"2020-02-27T23:28:18","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/?p=43655"},"modified":"2020-02-28T03:58:24","modified_gmt":"2020-02-28T10:58:24","slug":"a-week-and-a-day","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/?p=43655","title":{"rendered":"A Week And A Day"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em>&#8220;A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future and accepts you just the way you are.&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<div class=\"wp-block-image\">\n<figure class=\"aligncenter size-large is-resized\">\n<div id=\"attachment_43658\" style=\"width: 616px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43658\" class=\"wp-image-43658\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue_paul_together_003-450x338.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"606\" height=\"455\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue_paul_together_003-450x338.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue_paul_together_003-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue_paul_together_003-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue_paul_together_003-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue_paul_together_003.jpg 1024w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 606px) 100vw, 606px\" \/><p id=\"caption-attachment-43658\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">We traveled the world, seeing six continents traveling with Crystal Cruises and riding everything from Camels to four-wheel hot rods!<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">All night long, I remembered our adventures.\u00a0 We flew over the outback, hot air ballooned in mid-Australia,\u00a0 slid on leather pants in Germany in a salt mine, went through the Panama Canal five times,\u00a0 sailed in the Med and South Pacific,\u00a0 spent days in Singapore and walked miles in Toyoko, rode the Bullet Train,\u00a0 visited Big Ben, drank wine in France, and so much more. We saw the world; now, it was time to see home!\u00a0 That option is now gone.<\/p>\n<p>When I finally came out of my room around 7:00 AM, after another terrible evening, it was time to take action and walk! I guzzled my coffee and braced for the cold morning air. Out the door like a shot with my headphones listening to the Blaze radio, hat placed on top of my head, and the GPS Pacer software running.\u00a0 I easily did a mile in 20 minutes.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_43684\" style=\"width: 1053px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/walk-map.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43684\" class=\"size-full wp-image-43684\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/walk-map.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"1043\" height=\"1307\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/walk-map.png 1043w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/walk-map-239x300.png 239w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/walk-map-448x562.png 448w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/walk-map-120x150.png 120w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/walk-map-768x962.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 1043px) 100vw, 1043px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-43684\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Not too bad after a two-year hiatus (In 2017 I walked 1000+ miles)<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">This morning Colleen departed early to do some errands, and I was alone.\u00a0 Methinks Colleen is doing this on purpose to make sure I am OK alone and doing it a little more every day; she is sneaky in the most loving way!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">I was listening to Rush using my Bose Noise Cancelling Headphones when I saw a flash at the front door.\u00a0 It was Vicky, and she scared me to death.\u00a0 She visited for a while and began talking about Sue, and I just cried the whole time.\u00a0 Finally, I remember to pick up the iPhone and capture just a minute of her conversation.\u00a0 I wished I had the presence of mind to capture the whole thing!<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"vicky remembering 500x700\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/xPWJBvq-mkE?start=3&#038;feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">We have settled on dates for the burial at sea and Celebration of Life.\u00a0 The Good Lord was helping us as Colleen will be on the west coast with hubby Mark who is on business that week, Diane&#8217;s family is free as it is Easter break, grandchildren from the east coast will be out; I love it when a plan comes together.\u00a0 \u00a0We have had offers from three bands to play music at the ceremonies (not to dance but play her music).<\/p>\n<p>I was recalling yesterday and talking to Lee.\u00a0 She was able to share first hand the loss of a life partner.\u00a0 The all-night nap-a-thons are just nature&#8217;s way of coping with a loss. It was helpful. Lee enjoyed the interactions with the kids and seeing them now taking care of dad!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_43661\" style=\"width: 2570px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lee-paul-scaled.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43661\" class=\"size-full wp-image-43661\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lee-paul-scaled.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"2560\" height=\"1920\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lee-paul-scaled.jpg 2560w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lee-paul-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lee-paul-450x338.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lee-paul-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lee-paul-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lee-paul-1536x1152.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/lee-paul-2048x1536.jpg 2048w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 2560px) 100vw, 2560px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-43661\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Friends since 1959, sixty-one years!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Sue and Lee hit it off ten plus years ago, and, as it turns out, Lee did speed skating along with Bob Z. back in the day!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_43666\" style=\"width: 910px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-lee.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43666\" class=\"size-full wp-image-43666\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-lee.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"1200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-lee.jpg 900w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-lee-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-lee-422x562.jpg 422w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-lee-113x150.jpg 113w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-lee-768x1024.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-43666\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nine years ago, after a dance at the GG Elks!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>While in the garage, I thought I heard a message from another daughter who I have not heard from in a while.\u00a0 I quickly reached for the new-fangled digital land-land phone and somehow deleted the message?\u00a0 So, I am not sure who it was?\u00a0 Any phone that has a 217-page instruction book ought to be redesigned!<\/p>\n<p>Colleen and I are going out to dinner tonight, perhaps Old Ranch or Patty&#8217;s Place.\u00a0 I had Becca-Taco&#8217;s for lunch, GOOD GROCERIES!\u00a0 Becca made the offer that I could come over anytime; I may have to have the grandkids make another place setting for dinner!\u00a0 Thank you, Miss Becca!<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_43663\" style=\"width: 892px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-zack-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43663\" class=\"size-full wp-image-43663\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-zack-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"882\" height=\"1045\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-zack-1.jpg 882w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-zack-1-253x300.jpg 253w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-zack-1-450x533.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-zack-1-127x150.jpg 127w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/sue-zack-1-768x910.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 882px) 100vw, 882px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-43663\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Zack loved his Grandma now Zack is taking care of his Grandpa, the world turns and times change!<\/p><\/div>\n<div id=\"attachment_43686\" style=\"width: 610px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/jon-sue-curb.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43686\" class=\"size-full wp-image-43686\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/jon-sue-curb.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"600\" height=\"900\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/jon-sue-curb.jpg 600w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/jon-sue-curb-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/jon-sue-curb-375x562.jpg 375w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/jon-sue-curb-100x150.jpg 100w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 600px) 100vw, 600px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-43686\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sue used to carry him around the house and sing him songs; Jon would put her on the curb to get a hug!!\u00a0 They would both laugh!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>I helped Colleen pack up Muffy and family for the big move.\u00a0 Vicky came by and got Sue&#8217;s wheelchair for Del.\u00a0 I am sure Sue is smiling about that!\u00a0 Vicky and Del have been such amazing friends and neighbors.<\/p>\n<p>Colleen and I decided to go to Patty&#8217;s Place and visit Chuck, out bartender and a good friend.\u00a0 We both had French onion soup and shared some friends and a drink or two. Chuck remembered Sue and the many times we were together.\u00a0 He pulled out his phone and watched a YouTube video and then back into his shirt it went.\u00a0 Colleen asked, &#8220;What was that about?&#8221; Chuck hesitated and then decided to show Colleen.<\/p>\n<p>Several years back, Chuck was turning 60 and needed a venue.\u00a0 We volunteered Old Ranch and hosted the party for Chuck.\u00a0 Chuck as his own MC and singer.\u00a0 The video shows Sue and I dancing away even though she was hurting from the continuous pain from the back surgery.\u00a0 She was the definition of a trooper!<\/figure>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"Chuck and Pete&#039;s Birthday Bash\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/qsZSfxyXHiE?start=256&#038;feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture; web-share\" referrerpolicy=\"strict-origin-when-cross-origin\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Colleen, Joe and I shared a somewhat common sense of humor and enjoy each others company<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_43683\" style=\"width: 989px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/colleen-paul.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43683\" class=\"size-full wp-image-43683\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/colleen-paul.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"979\" height=\"1307\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/colleen-paul.jpg 979w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/colleen-paul-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/colleen-paul-421x562.jpg 421w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/colleen-paul-112x150.jpg 112w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/colleen-paul-768x1025.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 979px) 100vw, 979px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-43683\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Enjoying my beautiful daughter<\/p><\/div>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">We returned home and crashed early as we have another adventure tomorrow.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&#8220;A friend is someone who understands your past, believes in your future and accepts you just the way you are.&#8221; All night long, I remembered our adventures.\u00a0 We flew over the outback, hot air ballooned in mid-Australia,\u00a0 slid on leather &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/?p=43655\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[227],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43655","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-dining-out"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43655","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43655"}],"version-history":[{"count":22,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43655\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":43687,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43655\/revisions\/43687"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43655"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43655"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43655"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}