{"id":43506,"date":"2020-02-19T17:48:59","date_gmt":"2020-02-20T00:48:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/?p=43506"},"modified":"2023-06-14T07:56:48","modified_gmt":"2023-06-14T14:56:48","slug":"the-end-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/?p=43506","title":{"rendered":"The End Of An Era"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em><strong>At 6:50 am this morning I lost my soul mate.<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/missyou.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-43508\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/missyou.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"705\" height=\"503\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/missyou.jpg 705w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/missyou-300x214.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/missyou-450x321.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/missyou-150x107.jpg 150w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 705px) 100vw, 705px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_43516\" style=\"width: 910px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/soul-1.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43516\" class=\"size-full wp-image-43516\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/soul-1.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"900\" height=\"675\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/soul-1.jpg 900w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/soul-1-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/soul-1-450x338.jpg 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/soul-1-150x113.jpg 150w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/soul-1-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 900px) 100vw, 900px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-43516\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">One of a kind!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>The day began early as I knew Robin was departing the hospital after staying all night long.\u00a0 I took over the watch around 6:00 am.\u00a0 When I got there, Sue&#8217;s BP was in the OK zone, but the oxygenation was a little low.\u00a0 Your blood oxygen level is a measure of how much oxygen your red blood cells are carrying. Your body closely regulates your blood oxygen level. Maintaining the precise balance of oxygen-saturated blood is vital to your health.<\/p>\n<p>Sue was wearing a pulse oximeter (pulse ox) which is a noninvasive device that estimates the amount of oxygen in your blood. It does so by sending infrared light into capillaries in your finger, toe, or earlobe. Then it measures how much light is reflected off the gases.<\/p>\n<p>I saw the level drop rather dramatically at about 6:50 AM, and I alerted the nurse in the ICU.<\/p>\n<p>They said I should call anyone I needed now, and I did.\u00a0 I first called Robin, then Diane, Colleen, Joe, Vicky, Irene, Zack &amp; Becca, and Connor.<\/p>\n<p>Two nurses came over and simply said, &#8220;We were losing her.&#8221;\u00a0 They asked if they should remove the CPAP device to make her more comfortable, and I said, &#8220;Certainly.&#8221;\u00a0 Within a minute or so, one nurse said. Even though we had an NDR posted, they asked if they should attempt to keep her alive.\u00a0 Sue and I had talked for years about what happens if.\u00a0 I was prepared and said, &#8220;No.&#8221;\u00a0 \u00a0The nurse said, &#8220;Her heart has stopped.&#8221;\u00a0 Mine also did.\u00a0 In that instant, she was gone.<\/p>\n<p>Robin was the first to arrive and was shocked as she had just left her an hour earlier.<\/p>\n<div id=\"attachment_43521\" style=\"width: 942px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/bunny-mouse-1.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-43521\" class=\"size-full wp-image-43521\" src=\"http:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/bunny-mouse-1.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"932\" height=\"1031\" srcset=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/bunny-mouse-1.png 932w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/bunny-mouse-1-271x300.png 271w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/bunny-mouse-1-450x498.png 450w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/bunny-mouse-1-136x150.png 136w, https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/wp-content\/dailydiary\/uploads\/2020\/02\/bunny-mouse-1-768x850.png 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 932px) 100vw, 932px\" \/><\/a><p id=\"caption-attachment-43521\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">The love of my life is gone!<\/p><\/div>\n<p>Everyone showed up, and at 10:00 am, we all moved to the ICU Waiting Room until Sue was moved from the ICU.<\/p>\n<p>Diane was flying in, and she took an Uber to our home.\u00a0 Thank goodness for Diane; she was a blessing, a no-nonsense angel!<\/p>\n<p>We all went home and talked until about noon, at which time we all went to CPK.<\/p>\n<p>As the afternoon wore on, people headed for their routines. At dinner time, Diane and I went to Patty&#8217;s Place and got big hugs from the crew at Patty&#8217;s.<\/p>\n<p>Diane and I talked for hours afterward until Colleen arrived at about 10:00 PM.\u00a0 We all talked until midnight.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>At 6:50 am this morning I lost my soul mate. The day began early as I knew Robin was departing the hospital after staying all night long.\u00a0 I took over the watch around 6:00 am.\u00a0 When I got there, Sue&#8217;s &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/?p=43506\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[228,5,184],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-43506","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-doctor","category-family","category-just-us"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43506","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=43506"}],"version-history":[{"count":8,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43506\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":69984,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/43506\/revisions\/69984"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=43506"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=43506"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lilesnet.com\/dailydiary\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=43506"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}